Showing posts with label decisions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label decisions. Show all posts

Wednesday, 17 September 2014

Making your mind up


I'm usually a fairly decisive person.
I'm not a ditherer, a waverer, or a fence-sitter.
I don't fanny about.

I hope I do think carefully about the stuff which is important, but the insignificant decisions around the edges? A rule of thumb to assess whether something is worth sweating over is to ask myself the question, am I going to be worrying about this in a week/month/year from now?

No? Then it's time to get my head out of my arse and stop wittling*

So, with that in mind, I am approaching my current pruning of the wardrobe with a hardened heart and a sensible head.


When in doubt - try it out.

These two 1970s dresses were on my make your mind up pile.
In true X Factor judge style, I have made my decision.
 
One stays, one goes.
 
 

That's my decision-making face. Don't mess with me when I've got that face on.
 


Blogging is a useful tool for me when it comes to deciding whether an item of clothing has earned its wardrobe space. Looking at photos makes it easier to see myself with a more objective eye.

And I spy with my objective eye an unflattering dress. It's not that I don't like the print (I do) and the colours (I do), I just don't like the shape on me. It's got that empire line maternity wear look about it, and lacks the waist definition which suits me best.
 


Don't look so sad - it's only a frock. Back to Ebay with it, from whence it came.
 


I look much more streamlined with a waist. 
 
This polka-dot dress isn't showy or colourful, but I really like the shape, and with a bright cardigan and tights and a funky faux fur, I can jazz it up through autumn/winter.
 


1970s St Michael pussy-bow dress, denim jacket, 1970s shoes and bangles - charity shopped
Fishnets and belt - retail
1960s tapestry bag - vintage shop in Birmingham (bought on a bloggers' day out)
 


Faffing with my pussy bow, while pulling another daft face. I have quite the repertoire, just ask my kids.

Ooh, 1970s patent leather, round toes, stack heels and slingbacks - does a shoe get any better? And bought from a charity shop too, bonus.
 


The two Midwinter mugs are Jessie Tait's Spanish Garden design, very popular in the 1960s. And still very popular with me, I have a few pieces, and spotted these at a local vintage market on Sunday. I was restrained; I only bought the mugs and the 1960-70s duvet cover behind them, a huge spend of £3 all told.

The cat and the flowers, I already own, and the raindrops came for free. 

My plan is this; to sell sell sell as much clothing as I can between now and Christmas, thereby avoiding the selling of my soul to the retail monster that is Meadowhall. Working at Debenhams as a Christmas temp last year was OK, but I reckon I can make the same money through my own sales, without standing at tram stops in the rain late at night and having to work on Boxing Day.

I might have a stall at our school Christmas fair selling some vintage homewares, knick-knacks, linens, and accessories too. We will see whether the local community shares my love of retro tat, and is prepared to buy it off me!
 


Wish me luck!
 
*Wittling is a northern dialect word for worrying, fretting. Not to be confused with whittling. Although there is clearly a metaphoric connection.)

xxxx

Monday, 14 January 2013

I know but I don't know



I own a lot of clothes.

I know. 
A shocking revelation.

And while I am not, I repeat not, setting myself up for failure by announcing a massive declutter, life/wardrobe laundry, or stringent culling process, I do recognise that I have many items which I rarely wear, and could usefully move on to new owners.
 
 




Hmmm...

Here I am pondering the process of choosing what should stay and what should go.
 
It's hard!
 



I think this one's staying.

I like a long-sleeved frock for winter, and this one fits well, I like the scoop neckline and the pleated skirtiness of it. 

So that's one decision made.


Patti has published a series of posts recently aimed at building a wardrobe that works for you by establishing your signature style, cutting down on mistakes, and filling in the gaps.
 
 



I don't have a signature style.
I own and love vintage clothing from the 1950s through each subsequent decade. 
Skirts and dresses mostly.
Any lengths, though rarely very short. 
 

I even have a gorgeous 1930s frock - remember Dorothy Devore?
 
 
 
 

(I'm slightly scared to wear her, in case I spill something on her. But I can't get rid of her - she's too gorgeous!)


Sorry - what was I saying?
 

Mistakes - sure, I've made a few.
I sell them or give them away.
Since I never pay much for them, I don't mind taking a risk or experimenting.
 
Gaps? 
Many people might consider the fact I don't like jeans or own a sweater to be unbelievable wardrobe omissions.
Me, not so much.




1970s dress and boots - Ebay
Faux fur coat, sequin beret, 1960s scarf and bangles - charity shopped
Flower and belt - retail (sale)
Necklace - gift


I don't seem to have got very far.
 
You see why I find it so difficult to sort the wheat-y goodness from the chaff-y crap?
 
I want it ALL!
 
Unless it's beige.



I'm tired now.
I need a little light relief from the analysis.
 
Ahh, tabbies!

 
 
 
 

I suspect my progress may look a little like this...

Three steps forward.
Three steps back.


Linking to the always thoughtful, sensible and disciplined Patti, and the other lovelies at Visible Monday!


   xxx